Money

Money is a touchy subject to get into because the world revolves around it. I understand that people want to have money to get the things they want but realize that the new things people get today will be considered USED by tomorrow. By then,  some people would want something newer within 3 months or so. That's a WASTE of money and a never-ending circle of bad habit. It makes the person look egotistical because of their wants.

People should spend it on something that can make people happy. Make your friends happy. It's more fun that way and think about with money, how much plans with a friend someone can make.

There's also the kind of people that puts off what they really wanted for so long for something so cool that they just saw. That's a bad idea because not only are they  getting caught up in the moment, but they might not spot the item's downside until they spend their hard-earned cash for it.

In the end, money doesn't make a person entirely happy and the only way spend money wisely, is to think wisely.

September 13, 2008

lark,

i'm 4 months pregnant and i'm in quite a dilemma. my boyfriend, the father of the baby wants to get married for the sake of the child. my family wants me to get married for the baby as well. but i dont feel its right just for the baby. ive told this to my boyfriend and he said it was selfish of me to think of myself first. what do you think i should do? should i get married?

from,
pregnant and perplexed [patty]

Patty, I suggest that you do so. You brought the child into this world and it's very much your responsibility now to nurture and take care of this child. No child would want to grow up in a broken family let alone grow up not knowing who the father is. I think its great that the father is willing to spend his life devoted to you and the baby and so should you.

-- Lark

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